I think I will just repeat last year's, courtesy of Ayn Rand:
I swear--by my life and my love of it--that I will never live for the sake of another man, nor ask another man to live for mine.
only exception to this is my immediate family, which is really not an
exception - I think the very definition of family is those people you
move under the umbrella of your own self, to join you as part of your
Happy New Year!